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Love Advice #1: Taking care of the one you love

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I’m sure all of us love being pampered and being taken cared of but you know there’s something I actually missed doing. So here is my love advice. Some people would find it puzzling but to me, I actually missed taking care of someone. There was a time that I actually missed buying little presents to give to someone special or even planning a surprise for a special occasion. Every time I’d pass by a clothes store, I’d look in, then I’d see something that would have looked good for my partner but then I’d remember that I don’t have any partner to give it to.

Then I hear about some couples who’ve forgotten to take the time to do something nice for their loved one and I just have the strong urge to ask them how come they’re taking things for granted? It’s not everyday that you have someone special to share things with. Not everybody is that lucky to have found that special someone.

I know this now. You have to experience losing a loved one to fully appreciate the feeling of having found someone special to love. But why wait to get hurt? Why wait to lose that love? Why not look at what you have and see? Maybe it’s about time that you learn to appreciate the blessing that was given to you. Maybe you’ve forgotten how wonderful it is to make someone happy. Trust me, it’s the simple things and the things that we tend to take for granted that really leave an impact. I should know, I’ve experienced the loss and that’s why I’ve learned to appreciate every moment of making my love one smile. The grand gestures are always nice but for me, there’s nothing like the everyday things that remind you that there’s someone out there who loves you enough to care. For me, it’s the good morning greetings and the “take care” that never fails to make me smile. It’s the “have you eaten yet?” or the simple snack that your love one brings when he or she knows you’re working late. It’s when you pass by a store and you see his or her favorite chocolate and you buy it simply because seeing it reminded you of her. It’s the little every day things that make it all the more special.

Think it over. You might be surprised to realize that you’re one of those who’ve forgotten what it’s like to appreciate the joy of taking care of someone you love. Try my love advice and I hope it works for you.





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